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Every
year in September, students from all over
the nation are eager to go to school. Yet
for many HIV positive children and their
parents, it is extremely difficult to claim
the right to attend school.
Socially
ostracized HIV infected children who live
in the Hope-Orphanage in Hanoi can never
forget the humiliation on their first day
of school.
That
day, they were very happy and excited to
attend Yen Bai B Grade School near the Hope-Orphanage.
But they were expelled from the school on
their very first day. The reason was that
many parents objected to allowing the orphaned
children to study in the same classroom
together with their own children.
To
mention a similar incident at an Nhon Don
grade school in Cu Chi County, Ho Chi Minh
City, hundreds of parents protested when
they knew that their children would study
together with HIV- positive children.
They
were not sympathetic to even listen to the
HIV infected children who said: "Please,
we know we will die soon, would you please
let us go to school at least once? We promise
we will not let our disease spread to other
children".
A
woman whose HIV-infected children are in
the 3rd grade of a school in Thanh Xuan
district, Hanoi said: “I think the impact
of HIV on the children’s health is not as
terrible as the isolation and discrimination
they face every day and its negative influences
on their spirit.
On
the day when her child was old enough to
begin studying, she took him to the Khuong
Dinh primary school. Although she never
told anybody about her child's illness,
the parents of other students learned about
it. They rushed to the principal's office
and objected very strongly.
Because
of her love for her innocent child, she
asked for help at a Center for HIV-infected
people in Hanoi. Fortunately, after intervention
and some education, the parents of the healthy
children were willing to step out of ignorance
and welcome the HIV-infected students. All
the children could continue to attend the
school.
Two
of the provinces that have a high number
of HIV-positive children and adults in Vietnam
are Quang Ninh and An Giang. According to
the last survey at Ha Long City in Quang
Ninh province, the rate of school drop outs
among HIV-infected children was up to 13%,
and those who never can return to school was
up to 7%. In An Giang, the total rate for these
two categories was up to 39%.
When
asked why they stopped going to school,
most of the HIV-infected children answered
that they couldn't bear the discrimination
and isolation by their classmates.
The
main reason their classmates mistreat them
is that their parents had forbidden them
to have contact with the HIV-infected children.
Although
there are laws and regulations against discrimination of
HIV-infected people in Vietnam, the efforts to
overcome ignorance and fear and to help
HIV-infected children with their integration
into the greater community is still a facing
many difficulties.
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